My Story
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As far back as I can remember, I have always felt as if I always made the wrong choice. Those voices reminding me of my choices only confirmed to me that I was not good enough. It reminds me of “Scrat” the squirrel in “Ice Age” who was always trying to catch that elusive acorn. No matter how hard he tried, calamity, disappointment, and failed attempts seemed to be around every corner. I can relate to “Scrat”, can you? His confidence levels were constantly on a roller coaster. Rock bottom, mountain top, and rock bottom again! One thing I admire about “Scrat” was that he kept trying and never gave up!
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Growing Pains!!
After a failed marriage that I thought would last forever, I had to recalibrate my life and approach l to relationships. Crap, although my parents have been married over 60 years and grandparents over 50 years, all I could say was Dang, Dang, Dang!! I thought to myself, what in the “Sam Hill” is wrong with me!! I didn’t see that one coming. Yes, a serious self-examination and deep dig were in order. What makes me tick! Yikes! I had to own my part and forgive myself, and everyone else. Although, it takes two to tango, being deceived is never okay. Was it easy to forgive? No, it never is! But Philippians 4:13 says that I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength! I had to rely on that scripture until the ill feelings became lesser and lesser.
Getting things done!!
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After much prayer and fasting, I felt the need to finish some things I had started, and in 2022, I graduated with honors with my BS in Psychology, I took an early out on my job and went on to complete the accreditation program to become a Coaching Master. Although my prior certification gave me many tools to help others, this program strengthened my arsenal. I coached and received coaching every week and realized how changing your mindset can take you from where you are to where you want to be. Yes, I did it and gained clarity amid all of the chaos in my life. I am a walking example of being more than a conqueror simply because of the negative voices, lack of support, and crappy breaks in my life.
I John 4:5 Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you than he that is in the world.
Good Enough? Pfft!
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Those individuals who have tried and are trying to make me feel unworthy, not good enough, and a failure, were sent to put out my fire and frustrate my efforts by getting into my head. As I write this, I think of those who said, “you didn’t pray hard enough” or “you didn’t wait long enough” and my favorite, “you had to do something wrong”. Reminds me of Job's friend. Today, I just say, it was all for such a time as this!
Why?
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Why have I shared portions of my life? Simply because there are others out there who have experienced the same things. Hey if I can help one person, that would be awesome!! When you are going through tough times in life, The voices that shout the loudest are the negative ones. They constantly remind you of your losses and failures. They will remind you of your past and try to discourage you from moving forward. That’s where fear comes in and says “Remember, what happened the last time”, “you know that people will start talking about you”, “what if this doesn’t work out”, and last but not least, “Why bother”.
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This is what I want you to do. Put a muzzle on those negative thoughts11 Right now, I am offering a free discovery session to those who are ready to get some clarity amid chaos and shatter the obstacles that are holding you back. You owe it to yourself, to embark on your journey to becoming the Whole woman that God has called you to be!! After this session, a program will be specifically designed just for you. Book your FREE Discover Session today!!
"My Motivation is to help YOU gain Clarity amid Chaos,, and Transform your Mindset by turning your pain into power.